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Have you ever noticed that homeschoolers are afraid to complain?
Maybe you feel like this yourself. It could be that you’ve had a really rough week and you’d love to vent to your friend, but you can’t, because she doesn’t homeschool.
So you hop online and find a group of other homeschoolers and vent there. You look for understanding and compassion from complete strangers because you know that if you mention your troubles to your local friends, especially the ones who don’t homeschool, you’ll have to face their criticisms.
Mama, I don’t blame you one bit!
After all, when you’re down and feeling beaten, the last thing you’re ready to do is defend your choice to homeschool. You don’t need someone to tell you it’s a hard choice, and you surely don’t need someone to make you feel like a failure.
One of the top bits of advice you’ll hear any non-homeschooler give a homeschool family when the sailing gets rough is, “Why don’t you put them in public school?”
In other words, mom, you should just give up. You had a rough week, so quit. You’re life isn’t magazine perfect, so it’s time to march over to the school board and fill out that paper work.
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Sure. There really ARE times when this is actually the best choice for a family. Sometimes homeschooling is just for a small season and that’s fine. But that’s not a choice you should be making at the end of a hard week or month! That’s a choice that should be carefully discussed with just as much research and passion as when you first started homeschooling.
[tweetthis]If you’re frustrated because you aren’t perfect, it’s time to set some more realistic goals.[/tweetthis]
Mama, no one is perfect. That homeschool mom you see at co-op who always seems to have the kids well dressed, brushed hair, healthy lunches AND they know all their multiplication facts by the age of 4… she probably has a pile of dirty laundry and a sink full of dishes waiting for her at home. Or that mom who always seems to have a beautiful home that she opens up to other homeschoolers for meetings? Her kids are well educated, but she hasn’t slept more than a few hours at a time in months.
We read blogs that look amazingly perfect and feel like we’re not measuring up. We look at other moms and wonder how they do it all. We envy the people around us, thinking they have it so much more together than we do. We start feeling like we’re not enough. We’re not enough to make this homeschool life work. And it’s all a big, fat, juicy lie.
You are enough.
Let’s stop here for just a moment, Mama. I want you to take in a nice, long, deep breath and repeat this phrase to yourself. Say it out loud. Look in the mirror and tell your reflection. “I am enough.”
You are the mother. You are made stronger than you ever imagined. Look back, for a minute. Back before you had kids. Did you think you could do everything you’ve already done? I know I didn’t!
Make A Plan To Make This Easier:
I want you to make a list of all the things you do every day for your family because you love them.
Now make a list of all the things you feel like you SHOULD be doing but you never get around to it. What things do you feel like you’re failing at?
Look down your first list. Is there anything on there that you don’t really need to be doing? Is there anything on there that the kids can help with? A big area that can really ease up a moms life is household chores. It can take a few months to get everyone used to pitching in if they aren’t doing it already, but even very young kids can learn to help with chores. If you have an 8-10 year old, you’re golden: They usually LOVE to help out and are at the right age to actually be good at it! ♥ Let them help with laundry and dishes. Let them set the table and sweep up. Let them love you by helping you.
Now look at the list of areas where you struggle the most. Again, is there anything there that the family can help you with? Is there anything there that really isn’t as important as you first thought? Sometimes we think we’re failing simply because we are comparing our life to someone else. Maybe your homeschool friend takes the kids on several field trips each week and you struggle to get one in per month. This isn’t something you need to feel bad about. You are different. Your family has different priorities and that’s okay. What can you cross off that list by being honest about yourself and your family?
Don’t Believe The Lie.
Mama, none of us is perfect. And you don’t have to feel like you should give up homeschooling just because you’ve had a bad week. (And remember… public school teachers have bad weeks, too!)
I want you to take a moment right now and leave us a comment on this post. Share at least one thing you feel like you’re failing at. Tell us your struggles. Then tell us one thing you’ve totally got a handle on! We can celebrate with you and we can maybe offer each other some specific advice that can’t be addressed in a blog post like this. We are a strong community of homeschooling moms here and we’re ready to help you where we can. And we’re REALLY ready for you to help us too! ♥